Is it something you want to take into your future?

the life-changing magic of tidying up book by Marie KondoTwo years ago, I was browsing in a bookstore, and I picked up a book on their bestsellers table. I liked the way the book looked and felt in my hands, and I made a split second decision to buy it just before they closed, completely unaware that what I felt was what the book was about - an item sparking joy in myself. The book was Marie Kondo's The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up

Though the KonMari Method is about following your heart, not necessarily your instincts, I'm so glad I picked up that book! 

I love stuff. I love to collect things, especially old things. I love the memories they hold, the connections they remind me of, and the history they contain. I am comforted by always having useful things around in case I need them. It's rare I ever leave my house without a bag (although I do try to challenge myself sometimes). 

I am very careful with my things. I always have been, even when I was a child. I still have my baby blanket, in perfect condition! I assign feelings to objects. I don't slam doors or act rough with things because I don't want to hurt them. If I'm inadvertently hard on an item, I always apologize. I don't want it to feel bad!

I tell my car how much I appreciate all her hard work, and make sure she knows that when something breaks, it's not her fault, it's mine. I say hello to my house when I come home, and tell it "I'll see you soon" when I leave. 

There was a scene in the TV show The Middle, where one of the characters, Sue Heck (who my car is named after!) describes using her curlers. Each time she used them, she picked them up in a different order so that none of them would feel left out. Her brother thinks she's crazy, but I could totally relate!

I also become very attached to my things. Too attached, sometimes. They hold memories and emotions, and I have a hard time getting rid of things I no longer need, use, or want. I feel tied to them, like I'm throwing out (or donating) a piece of myself. I have, on occasion, asked a friend to remove something of mine that was broken, so I could avoid some of the sadness.

As I read Marie Kondo's book, I continuously thought, "this is so me!"

She wrote of things holding energy, and about how we put our own energy into our things. She speaks about caring for and loving objects. When she explained how to say thank you to things before letting them go, and allowing their energy to be released, it was the first time I had ever clicked with a method of decluttering. 

Because, the KonMari Method isn't about cleaning. It's about loving your things, and being surrounded only by the things you love. It's about, "choosing what we want to keep, not what we want to get rid of". It's about finding appreciation in the small things, like how well a spatula flips eggs, or how nice a light shines. It's about mindfully creating an environment that is full of what you love. That might be only the bare necessities, or it might be hundreds of salt and pepper shakers displayed on shelves. It all depends on the person. There are no rules to follow, except to keep what sparks joy inside you, and lovingly release what doesn't. 

In the past, I've felt guilty about getting rid of things, especially if they were gifts. Marie Kondo teaches that if we learn something from an object, then it has filled it's purpose with us and it's ok to let it go. If I bought something that made me happy in the moment, it served me and I no longer need to keep it. If someone gave me something and I felt loved in the moment, it's ok to later let it go. If the only lesson I learned was that I shouldn't buy that specific type of shoe, then that was the purpose of buying those shoes and I can let them go. It's not only ok to let them go, Marie Kondo says, "to truly cherish the things that are important to you, you must first discard those that have outlived their purpose"

I recently started watching her show. My favorite quote so far is, "What I really want you to ask yourself, is if it's something you really want to take into your future." I love watching her in action, and her books are helping me change my life.

XoXo,
Lisa



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